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He Has Such Great Energy... Where
Does She Get All That Energy...
I wish I knew. You've heard
it before or maybe you've said it before.
Well now you can learn how
to create more energy for yourself with your own "Energy
Formula"!
As Henry Truman said, "I
studied the lives of great men and famous women, and I found
that the men and women who got to the top were those who did
the jobs they had in hand, with all the
energy and enthusiasm they had."
Let's face it, life today is
very fast paced and full. There never seems to be enough time
or energy in a day. However, when you learn the secret of how
to re-energize yourself you can actually create a better day,
feel happier and healthier.
Jane is in her twenties. She is
very often exhausted and drained at the end of the day from
her high- pressured sales job and trying to keep up with the
rest of her life. She finds it a struggle and has to push herself out the door to go out with her friends who are
constantly calling. Most of the time she just declines and
stays at home. One of the many things that we worked on that
has made her more successful is to create her very own energy
formula. When Benjamin Franklin said, "Energy and persistence
conquer all things," he was definitely on to a very important
ingredient to success.
Through our coaching
session I uncovered that Jane gets a lot of joy from playing
with her dog, exercising, riding her bike, reading and playing
the piano (which she hasn't done in years). Then we created a
plan of how she can add some of these things into her life. She
also continues to add to her list by being aware of when she
smiles, feels happy and energetic. Now when Jane gets off
track, as we all do, she knows that it's okay because she knows what
to do to get back on track. Now she comes to our coaching
appointments less stressed, accomplishing more, feeling better
about herself and happier.
Most people feel better
when they have a plan of action and know what to do. As with
anything you learn in the beginning, it may feel uncomfortable
and you have to remember what to do, however the results are worth the
effort. It is important to know what works for you, as
everybody's formula is different. There are always challenges
in life and at times we go down that negative self talk black
hole, however the key is to know how to climb out. Creating your energy formula will speed up the process. My own
personal formula includes meditating, exercise, music,
reading, talking and/or connecting with friends, eating right,
and having fun which is a big one for me. Although it takes me an
extra 10-20 minutes in the morning to meditate, I've observed
and learned that I accomplish more and have a better day when
I do. What works for me may not work for you, that's why it is
important to take the five minutes and start the process.
Here is how to start
creating your own "Personalized Energy Formula." The first
step is to be aware of when you are smiling, singing, laughing
and feeling good. Now make a list of whatever comes into your
mind. Don't over think it, just write it down. Next choose one
step you can take this week.
Here is an example of how
one step can help. John, a successful business owner with 50
employees really liked to run for exercise but hadn't taken
the time to do it in years because he felt guilty about taking
the time away from his family. His wife was
constantly saying "you aren't listening to me," and he
admitted his head was still on work. This is the plan we made:
Step One - John packed a
bag with his running clothes and put it in the car. He
actually drove around with it for two weeks before he was
ready for step two.
Step Two - John told his wife why he would be late coming home from work and what
he was trying to achieve.
Step Three - John didn't want
his employees to see him leaving the office with his running
clothes on because he felt guilty about that too. So he drove
to the lake, changed in the restroom and ran a couple of
miles.
Success! He felt great and
started doing it twice a week. His wife noticed that on the
days he ran he actually listened to her and he seemed happier.
Since then he decided to take it to another level and he put a
treadmill and some free weights in his basement. Now when he
gets home, he immediately works out five days a week. He has a
better relationship with his wife and children and is more
present when he is with them. Needless to say he is more fit,
feeling better about himself, calmer at work and is a better
leader.
Many people say they want
to change but how many will take the necessary steps? I
challenge you to do something about it this week. All it takes
is just one step at a time.
"How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time!" I am betting on you! If Jane
and John can do it so can you. Remember people are attracted
to positive and energetic people. No wonder they are
successful in all areas of their lives.
Nancy Chisholm
works with Sales Professionals and Teams to go to the next
level of success.
Nancy Chisholm
Sales
Consultant & Coach
P: 617-536-8488
E:
nancy@nancychisholm.com
"Whatever you
can do, or dream you can do, you can. Boldness has a genius
magic and power to it." - Goethe
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