May 11, 2006

 
 
 

 

 
 

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Hello all, people have been asking me about selling and growing their business, which is what I cover in my Monday classes... "Boost Your Sales" ... so for the second newsletter of each month, I will cover how to grow sales....

Today, I was working on the road with a salesperson, who during the call, obviously forgot what selling was all about. Selling is about the customer or prospect. The prospect spoke slowly and softly, the sales person was loud and mostly concerned with telling the prospect about his company. Gently, I was able to help the salesperson, by "stepping on his lines."  I interrupted the salesperson... and softly, I asked the prospect to tell me what he was looking for and what was on his mind when he gave Mike (not his real name) the appointment. The prospect gladly filled us in on his interest and why he did set the appointment. I succeeded in slowing the salesperson down by interrupting. Why do salespeople and business people forget that selling is not about them? We get attached to outcomes. It starts as soon as we get an appointment. We might think "I could sure use this sale" or "this one would look nice on this month's numbers." Once attached to an outcome, we put additional pressure on the prospect, we work from our head and not our body and we miss key clues that prospects give us with tone of voice, their body language and their words. We are focused on us and not the prospect when we are in our heads and attached to the outcome.

How do we stay detached, especially when the budget or the monthly overhead or the boss is seemingly pressing in upon us?

  1. Keep the faith. Our world forms around our predominant thoughts and emotions. If you feel like you can't win, if you walk around feeling defeated, you are. Use affirmations. Visualize your goal. See people shaking your hand, see signed contracts in your mind. See some of the results of your success. See your success and feel what it feels like to be a success. Never succumb to the negative and what that kind of thinking will bring. Remember, you are always planting a future harvest with your thoughts, words and actions. Stay positive and see it in your minds eye and match your words with success. Focus on solutions and not problems.

  2. Actions. Spend some quiet time each morning, asking your Higher Power, whatever that is for you... (for me it is God and Universal Mind), to guide you and inspire you. Next, get going and act on what comes to you. Wayne Dyer says that everything in this Universe comes from "no where to now here." When you get a thought that comes out of No Where... act on it... Follow your intuition. Intuition is Divine Guidance... For me it works every time. Who wouldn't want a Divine Senior Business Partner? Your job is action... be sure you are in action... not stuck somewhere in the "needy mode" attached to outcomes that have you almost begging for the business. Believe me, I have been there many times in my thirty plus years of selling and it does not work.

  3. Start with the end mind and know your ideal prospect and customer. Do not settle for less than the best of the best. Know what your income goal is and add a figure to it that is beyond your "wildest imagination." Remember, miracles happen all the time in a Universe. Get excited and feel the excitement of achieving it. Know clearly what and who you would say "no" to. Know who is not a fit.

  4. On the next call, tell the prospect before you start that "you are here to help them make a buying decision and not to sell them anything." Ask if, at anytime, you feel that you are not a fit, would they mind saying, XXXX, sorry, you are not going to be a fit for us and then ask, how would they feel if you came to that conclusion, that "you may not be a fit for us"... what if you said that? You will hear yourself say that you may say no to them and it prepares you for the no that they might give you.

  5. Now ask questions, that you have prepared before the call, that help you BOTH determine if you are a fit for each other. No one can sell everyone and many customers are not a fit for us. Have you ever done business with someone that was not a fit? If so, you know what I am talking about... it is a nightmare. When your prospect is answering the questions, notice how they are sitting and speaking. Listen to the words they use. Match and Mirror them. Relax as they are speaking, as you are now helping them buy and not selling. This is less pressure for both of you. Much more enjoyable. Notice what you are feeling and find a way to say it... trust those feelings... If you feel afraid at any point remember FEAR Facing "Enormous" Adversity Realistically. Just move into the fear and bring up what your biggest fears are...

  6. Money is a reflection of how you are in a relationship. If money is tight and tightening... you are tight in your relationships... you are hanging onto bills a little longer before you mail them. You stopped being generous with your tips, you cut back on your sales commissions to your sales staff... you stopped enrolling in new programs because you decided "I can't afford it"... if you tightened up, so does your money. Look at where you are tightening and loosen up a bit. Remember, what goes around, comes around. I noticed a few weeks ago, that I was thinking of cutting back on a program I was enrolled in... "I'll pay a bill with the money"... I noticed that I held onto a few bills a little while before I made them out... well, as soon as I woke up and realized it. I re-enrolled in the program and I immediately paid the bills and I decided it was time to increase my tithe... I increased my tithe checks by 1/3... soon after, money started flowing in and new sales occurred... I had changed my mind set from "not enough money" to PLENTY OF MONEY... AND SOON THAT IS WHAT HAPPENED.

For help with sales, feel free to visit our Monday evening class from 4:00 pm until 6:15 pm, the next few weeks are scheduled as follows: 5/22, 6/5, 6/19, 7/17 and 7/31..... we won't hard sell you, after all, you may not be a fit...

I am also starting a Monday "early bird" class, from 7:00 am until 9:00 am...

Please e-mail me with any comments or call me with any questions. If you know someone who could receive this newsletter, e-mail me or call me with their information or simply forward them a copy of this email...

Thanks to all,
I am grateful..... Steve


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