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Someone recently asked me "How can I get to the point
where I am living a "real" and "authentic" life?
For you to get to the point where you feel authentic,
you will just have to say that you are there! It means that what you
are doing is part of what you really desire deep down. Then you can
change that anytime you want as well. You can decide that everything
that you are doing now, have always done, and will do in the future,
is all that you desire. Nothing is wasted in this Universe, so nothing
has been wasted in our lives. Its all been part of our desires, our
creation. It's just that sometimes we do not own the "awful" or "ugly"
parts. So then, being "real" or "authentic" is just deciding that, in
every moment. If we live from that, our deepest desires manifest!
If you are feeling that you are not being "real" in a
relationship, or feel stuck in a career or job or just feel that you
are not being true or authentic to what you really desire, the first
step that is required is making the decision to get real first. The
next step is speaking clearly and directly. Deal with your biggest
fears in that relationship, speak up on the job and get real in
every moment. Then add visualizing and meditating about your deepest
desires. No matter how ambitious or ridiculous they seem, if you have
those desires, you have the tools to fulfill them!
Get started today. Be real with your feelings. Be
authentic with those around you. Know that where you are now, you have
created. You have been authentic with what you have been thinking
about! You may have not been authentic with your deepest desires. You
probably have said somewhere deep down that you did not deserve those
things! Change your mind and change your life.
Remember, "if you don't like your experience of the
world, change how the world is experiencing you"!
Getting real is a choice. Start today.
Thanks,
Steve Lentini
Author of "Wake Up, Jump into Your Life" and "Easy Selling" |
